شیوه همسرداری حضرت خدیجه(س) در سه حوزه فرهنگی، روان شناختی و رفتاری
محورهای موضوعی : اخلاق
رضا بنی اسدی
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مریم باقری نژاد یزدی
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1 - استادیار، گروه معارف اسلامی، دانشکده پزشکی، دانشگاه علوم پزشکی شهید صدوقی یزد، یزد، ایران.
2 - دانش آموخته سطح 2، گروه معارف اسلامی، حوزه علمیه خواهران زینب کبری (س)، یزد، ایران.
کلید واژه: حوزه روان شناختی, حوزه فرهنگی, حضرت خدیجه(س), حوزه رفتاری, شیوه همسرداری,
چکیده مقاله :
هدف پژوهش حاضر بررسی شیوه همسرداری حضرت خدیجه(س) در سه حوزه فرهنگی، روان شناختی و رفتاری بود. جامعه پژوهش شامل کلیه متون و منابع مربوط به حضرت خدیجه(س) است. نمونه پژوهش متون مربوط به شیوه همسرداری حضرت خدیجه(س) بود. این پژوهش از نوع توصیفی تحلیلی بود. با استفاده از روش اسنادی و کتابخانه ای اطلاعات جمع آوری شد و سپس داده های به دست آمده تحلیل شدند. نتایج پژوهش نشان داد که حضرت خدیجه(س) بانوی بی نظیر حجاز در شیوه همسرداری خویش با پیامبر اکرم(ص) در سه بعد فرهنگی، روان شناختی و رفتاری بسیار تحسین برانگیز عمل کرده و می تواند الگویی کامل برای همه زنان مؤمن بلکه مطلق زنان باشد. آن حضرت که در زمان حیات و پس از آن مورد توجه دیگران بودند در حوزه فرهنگی تحولاتی در خصوص نگاه به شیوه همسرگزینی، تأثیر سن در ازدواج و عدم تأکید بر تجمل گرایی ایجاد نمودند. در حوزه روان شناختی دارای ویژگی های عشق و معرفت، اعتماد قلبی به همسرو درک مشکلات زندگی بود. هم چنین در حوزه رفتاری دارای ویژگی هایی مانند عفت، سخاوت، تکریم همسر، حمایت از همسر، و موجد فضای ایمن و آرامش بخش در خانه بود. بنابراین می توان گزارش کرد که به کارگیری مجموع این مؤلفه ها توسط زنان، موجب ارتقای جایگاه آنان نزد همسر و در نتیجه استحکام خانواده و نیل به اهداف مشترک می شود.
The purpose of the present study was to investigate the interacting with spouse style of Hazrat Khadijah (PBUH) in three cultural, psychological and behavioral fields. The research universe included all the texts and sources related to Hazrat Khadijah (PBUH). The sample of the research was the texts related to the interacting with spouse style of Hazrat Khadijah (PBUH) and the cultural, psychological and behavioral analysis about this contents. This research was descriptive and analytical. Data was collected using documentary and library methods via reviewing the texts on interacting with spouse style of Hazrat Khadijah (PBUH and cultural, psychological and behavioral subjects and note taking on index cards. Then the obtained data were analyzed. The results of the research showed that Hazrat Khadijah (PBUH), the unique lady of Hijaz, acted very admirably in her way of interacting with spouse to the Holy Prophet (PBUH) in three cultural, psychological and behavioral dimensions, and she should be a perfect model not only for all faithful women, but also for absolute all women. She that was taken under consideration of others during her lifetime and after her death, developed the attitude toward matrimony, the impact of age on marriage and non-insisting on luxury in cultural field. On psychological domain she held traits akin love and perception, deep confidence on her spouse and understanding the life difficulties. Also, in the field of behavior, she had characteristics such as chastity, generosity, honoring her spouse, supporting her husband, and creating a safe and relaxing atmosphere at home. Therefore, it could be reported that the use of all these components by women would improve their status with their husbands and, as a result, strengthen the family and achieve common goals.
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