رابطة بین آسیب دوران کودکی و صمیمیت عاطفی: نقش واسطه‌ای حرمت خود
محورهای موضوعی : روان شناسی تحولیآتوسا احمدی بیگ زاده 1 , محترم نعمت طاووسی 2 *
1 - دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی واحد تهران جنوب
2 - lمدیر گروه روانشناسی
داتشگاه آزاد اسلامی واحد تهران جنوب
کلید واژه: صمیمیت عاطفی, حرمت خود, آسیب دوران کودکی,
چکیده مقاله :
این پژوهش با هدف تعیین نقش واسطه‌ای حرمت خود در رابطۀ بین آسیب‌های دوران کودکی و صمیمیت عاطفی انجام شد. جامعۀ آماری دانشجویان روانشناسی کارشناسی و کارشناسی ارشد دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی واحد تهران جنوب در سال تحصیلی 1401-1400 بود. 300 دانشجوی متأهل با استفاده از روش نمونه‌برداری در دسترس به عنوان گروه نمونة پژوهش انتخاب شدند و به سیاهۀ ارزیابی شخصی صمیمیت در روابط (شافر و السون، 1981)، پرسشنامۀ آسیب دوران کودکی (برنشتاین و دیگران، 2003) و مقیاس حرمت خود کلی در سیاهۀ چندبعدی حرمت خود (اُبراین و اپستاین، 1980) پاسخ دادند. تحلیل داده‌ها نشان داد بین تمامی متغیرهای پژوهش همبستگی معنادار وجود دارد و حرمت خود در رابطۀ بین آسیب دوران کودکی با صمیمت عاطفی نقش واسطه‌ای دارد؛ 20 درصد از واريانس حرمت خود از طریق آسیب دوران کودکی و 14 درصد از واریانس صمیمیت عاطفی از طریق حرمت خود تبیین شد. درمجموع یافته‌های این پژوهش نشان داد تجارب آسیب‌زای دوران کودکی به‌واسطة کاهش سطح حرمت خود موانعی در راه برقراری و حفظ روابط صمیمانه با شریک عاطفی در بزرگسالی ایجاد می‌کند.
This research was aimed to determining the mediating role of self-esteem in the relationship between childhood trauma and emotional intimacy. The statistical population included undergraduate and graduate psychology students of the university of the Islamic Azad University, South Tehran Branch, in the academic year of 2022-2023. 300 married students were selected as the sample group of the study using the convenient sampling method and were administered the Personal Assessment of Intimacy in Relationships Inventory (Schaefer and Olson, 1981), the Childhood Trauma Questionnaire (Bernstein et al., 2003) and Global Self-Esteem (GSE) in Multidimensional Self-Esteem Inventory (O’Brien & Epstein, 1980) answered. The results of data analysis showed that there is a significant correlation between all research variables and self-esteem plays a mediating role in the relationship between childhood trauma and emotional intimacy. Thus, childhood trauma explains 20% of the variance of self-esteem. Also, 14% of the variance of emotional intimacy is explained through self-esteem. In sum, the findings of this research showed that the experiences of childhood traumas create obstacles on the way of individuals to establish and maintain intimate relationships with emotional partners in adulthood by reducing the level of self-esteem.
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