Evaluating model of meditating marital boredom role in the relationship between self-differentiation, conflict resolution styles & marital expectations in predicting marital adjustment in married men & women in Kermanshah
Subject Areas : Tectonostratigraphy
Alireza Alibakiyan
1
(Master's degree student in Family Counseling, Islamic Azad University, Kermanshah Branch)
karim afsharineya
2
(استادیار گروه مشاوره، دانشکده ادبیات و علوم انسانی ،واحد کرمانشاه)
Keywords: marital adjustment, conflict resolution styles, self-differentiation, marital expectation,
Abstract :
In this research, which was conducted under the title of Evaluating model of meditating marital boredom role in the relationship between self-differentiation, conflict resolution styles & marital expectations in predicting marital adjustment in married men & women in Kermanshah, the main purpose was to examine direct and indirect relationships between research variables, to determine their contribution to predicting marital adjustment. The research was descriptive & correlational type, & the statistical population was composed of all married men & women in Kermanshah in the autumn of 2019. 603 people were selected as the research sample by multi-stage cluster sampling method. The "LWMAT" Test & the DSI-R,"ROCI – II", AMS Sub Scale & "CBM" Questionnaires were the research tools. The evaluation of the proposed model was performed by using the statistical analysis of path analysis. The results showed that the indirect relationship between self-differentiation & marital adjustment through marital boredom (0.10) & the indirect relationship between dominant style & marital adjustment through marital boredom (-0.22) is significant
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