نقش عملکرد خانواده اصلی و روان‌رنجورخویی در باورهای ارتباطی زوجین متقاضی طلاق

محورهای موضوعی : زن و جامعه

رسول حشمتی ¹ , اصغر پوراسمعلی ² , مریم پرنیان خوی ³

1 - هیئت علمی دانشگاه تبریز
2 - روان شناس
3 - دانشگاه شهید مدنی آذربایجان

تاریخ دریافت : 1395/09/20 تاریخ پذیرش : 1398/10/29 تاریخ انتشار : 1398/10/01

کلید واژه: باورهای ارتباطی, روان رنجور خویی, عملکرد خانواده اصلی, زوجین متقاضی طلاق,

چکیده مقاله :

اهمیت باورها و الگوهای ارتباطی در شکل دادن و تعیین کیفیت روابط زوجین غیر قابل انکار است. این باورها نیز مانند هر متغیر دیگری نشأت گرفته از عوامل بسیاری نظیر فرآیندهای درونی و ویژگی شخصیتی هر فرد و نیز عوامل محیطی و بافت اجتماعی است. از این رو هدف پژوهش حاضر، نقش عملکرد خانواده­ی اصلی و روان‌رنجورخویی در باورهای ارتباطی زوجین متقاضی طلاق می­باشد. در مطالعه­ی حاضر که از نوع همبستگی می­باشد، از بین زوج­های متقاضی طلاق شهر اردبیل، 200 نفر با استفاده از روش نمونه­گیری هدفمند انتخاب شدند. ابزارهای مورد استفاده عبارت بودند از: خرده مقیاس روان‌رنجورخویی از پرسش­نامه­ی شخصیتی NEO-FFI (McCrae & Costa, 1985)، مقیاس خانواده­ی اصلی (Hovestadt et al, 1985) و پرسش­نامه­ی باورهای ارتباطی (Eidelson and Epstein, 1982). داده­ها با استفاده از روش­های ضریب همبستگی پیرسون و رگرسیون گام به گام تحلیل شدند. نتایج پژوهش نشان داد که باورهای ارتباطی زوجین با روان رنجورخویی، رابطه­ی مثبت و معنی داری دارد. از بین مؤلفه­های عملکرد خانواده­ی اصلی، مؤلفه­ی صراحت بیان، احترام و حل تعارض با باورهای ارتباطی زوجین رابطه­ی منفی و معنی­داری دارند. نتایج روش رگرسیون نیز نشان داد که روان رنجورخویی و مؤلفه­های صراحت بیان و اعتماد، بهترین پیش­بینی کننده­ی باورهای ارتباطی زوجین بوده­اند. البته در این میان، روان رنجورخویی سهم بیشتری در تبیین تغییرات باورهای ارتباطی زوجین نسبت به مؤلفه­های عملکرد خانواده­ی اصلی دارد. نتایج این پژوهش نشان داد که سطح پایین روان رنجور خویی و کارکرد بهنجار خانواده‌ی اصلی قادر به پیش بینی باورهای کارآمد ارتباطی می­باشد که نتیجه­ی این امر، کاهش تعارضات زناشویی می­باشد.

چکیده انگلیسی:

The importance of relationship beliefs and patterns in shaping and determining the quality of couple’s relationships is undeniable. This beliefs like any other variables derived from many factors such as internal processes and personality characteristics as well as environmental factors and social texture. The purpose of the present study is investigation the role of family-of-origin function and neuroticism in relationship beliefs of divorce applicant couples. In this research that is a correlation study, from the divorce applicant couples in Ardebil city, 200 person were selected using the purposive sampling method. The instruments used in this study were neuroticism subscale of the Personality Inventory (NEO-FFI) (McCrae and Costa, 1985), Family of origin Scale (Hovestadt and et al, 1985) and relationship Beliefs inventory (Eidelson and Epstein, 1982). Data were analyzed using the Pearson correlation coefficients and stepwise regression method. The results showed that there is a positive and significant relationship between couple’s beliefs and neuroticism. Among the components of the family-of-origin function, the components of expressiveness, respect and conflict resolution have a negative and significant relationship with couples' relationship beliefs. The results of regression analysis also showed that neuroticism and explicit expression and trust components were the best predictors of the relationship beliefs of couples. Of course, neuroticism has a greater role in explaining of that beliefs. The results of present study showed that low levels of neuroticism and family-of-origin’s normal function can predict effective relationship beliefs that the result of this issue is reduction of marital conflicts.

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