The relationship between differentiation and the Desire for virtual space cyberspace with the tendency to divorce due to the mediating role of the main family health in divorce applicants

Subject Areas : Woman and family

Seyed Mahdi Alavi Alavi ¹ , Hoseyn Mahoor ²

1 - M.Sc. Student, Family Counseling, Bayhaq Institute of Higher Education, Sabzevar, Iran (Corresponding Author) [e-mail] صبا
2 - Associate Professor, , Faculty member of Beyhagh Sabzevar Institute of Higher Education, Sabzevar, Iran

Received: 2021-12-23 Accepted : 2022-03-07 Published : 2023-05-22

Keywords: main family health, Differentiation of couples, Tendency to divorce, desire for cyberspace,

Abstract :

The purpose of this study was to investigate the mediating role of main family health in relation to differentiation and Desire for virtual space with a tendency to divorce in divorce applicants referred to the Welfare Intervention Center of Mashhad. This research was applied in terms of purpose by using the method of finding the field and using correlation and regression. The statistical population of this study consisted of all divorce applicants referred to the Mashhad Welfare Crisis Intervention Center in 1999. Using the Cochran's formula, 375 male and female divorce applicants participated in this study voluntarily. The questionnaires used in this study were: Self-differentiation (DSI) Scuron and Fridlender (2000 Hovestadt, Anderson, Piercy, Cochran, & Fine (1985) main family scale (1985) and Young's (1999) which Were distributed to the the sample group. Data were analyzed by statistical software and the results of the present study using structural equations showed that family health plays a mediating role in the relationship between differentiation and the to cyberspace with a tendency to divorce in divorce applicants (p <0.05). It also showed that differentiation and cyberspace are related to the health of the main family and the tendency to divorce..

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