مقایسه خودشیفتگی، بیگانگی و دلبستگی در زنان متقاضی طلاق و عادی
محورهای موضوعی : روانشناسی زوجین
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کلید واژه: بیگانگی, خانواده, خودشیفتگی, دلبستگی, عدم سازگاری, متقاضی طلاق,
چکیده مقاله :
مقدمه: خانواده مهم‌ترین واحد جامعه است. ازدواج به این دلیل ساختار اولیه را برای ایجاد رابطة خانوادگی و پرورش نسل آینده فراهم می‌کند، مهم‌ترین و اساسی‌ترین رابطه انسانی توصیف شده است. هدف از پژوهش حاضر مقایسه خودشیفتگی، بیگانگی و دلبستگی در زنان متقاضی طلاق و عادی بود. روش پژوهش: روش تحقیق ازنظر اهداف کاربردی و به لحاظ شیوه گردآوری داده‌ها توصیفی از نوع علی مقایسه ای بود. جامعه آماری پژوهش را تمامی زنان متقاضی طلاق و عادی شهر قم تشکیل داد که ازاین‌بین با استفاده از روش نمونه گیری هدفمند تعداد 100 نفر انتخاب شدند. اطلاعات با استفاده از پرسشنامه های خودشیفتگی و روابط موضوعی جمع‌آوری گردید. داده‌ها با استفاده از آزمون تحلیل واریانس چند متغیره مورد تجزیه‌وتحلیل قرار گرفتند. یافته ها: نتایج تحلیل واریانس چند متغیره نشان داد که بین خود شیفتگی، بیگانگی و دلبستگی در زنان متقاضی طلاق و عادی تفاوت معناداری وجود دارد. نتیجه گیری: با توجه به شناسايي عوامل پـيش بينـي كننـده طلاق و عدم سازگاري زناشويي، آموزش موارد مطروحه در اين پژوهش به زوجين متقاضي طلاق مي تواند گامي موثر در پيشگيري از شكل گيري ازدواج هاي ناموفق و به تبع آن خانواده هاي بدكار و آسيب هاي اجتماعي گردد، همچنین آموزش مهارت هاي ارتباطي به جوانان جهت جلوگيري از افتادن در دام وابستگي هاي عاطفي و جنسي در دوران آشنايي پيش از ازدواج از عوامل اساسی به شمار میرود.
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Abstract
Introduction: The family is the most important unit of society. For this reason, marriage provides the primary structure for creating family relationships and nurturing the future generation, it is described as the most important and fundamental human relationship. The aim of the current research was to compare narcissism, alienation and attachment in women seeking divorce and normal women. Research method: The research method was descriptive and comparative in terms of practical objectives and in terms of data collection method. The statistical population of the research was made up of all women applying for divorce and ordinary women of Qom city, from which 100 people were selected using the purposeful sampling method. Information was collected using narcissism questionnaires and thematic relationships. Data were analyzed using multivariate analysis of variance test. Findings: The results of multivariate analysis of variance showed that there is a significant difference between narcissism, alienation and attachment in women seeking divorce and normal women. Conclusion: According to the identification of predicting factors of divorce and marital incompatibility, teaching the issues presented in this research to couples applying for divorce can be an effective step in preventing the formation of unsuccessful marriages and, as a result, dysfunctional families and social damage. Also, teaching communication skills to young people in order to prevent them from falling into the trap of emotional and sexual dependencies during dating before marriage is considered as one of the essential factors.
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