مقایسه سبک‌های مقابله‌ای و واکنش سوگ در مادران سرپرست خانواده ناشی از طلاق و فوت همسر
محورهای موضوعی : روانشناسی زوجین
1 - (نویسنده مسئول)، دانش آموخته روانشناسی بالینی، گروه روانشناسی، واحد تهران مرکزی، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، تهران، ایران Email: tayebehhajiesfandiary@gmail.com, tell: 09125637780
کلید واژه: راهبردهای مقابله‌ای, سرپرست, سوگ, طلاق,
چکیده مقاله :
چکیده مقدمه: تجربه ازدست‌دادن چالش‌برانگیز است، بخصوص زمانی که به دلیل طلاق یا فوت همسر اتفاق می‌افتد، و این برای مادران می‌تواند مواجهه‌ای دشوار باشد. هدف پژوهش حاضر مقایسه سبک‌های مقابله‌ای و واکنش سوگ در مادران سرپرست خانواده ناشی از طلاق و فوت همسر بود. روش پژوهش: پژوهش حاضر، توصیفی از نوع علی – مقایسه‌‌‌‌ای بود. جامعه آماری این پژوهش شامل تمامی مادران سرپرست خانواده با دامنه سنی 33 تا 52 سال ساکن در شهر کرج در سال 1402-1401بود. که شامل دو گروه از مادران مطلقه و مادرانی که همسرانشان فوت کرده بودند، بود. روش نمونه‌گیری از نوع در دسترس شامل دو گروه 35 نفری از مادران سرپرست خانواده (یک گروه به دلیل طلاق و گروه دوم به دلیل فوت همسر) بود، ابزار جمع‌آوری اطلاعات در این پژوهش پرسشنامه‌های راهبردهای مقابله‌ای لاکمن و سیاهه آثار سوگ هوگان بود. داده‌ها با استفاده از روش واریانس چند متغیری و نرم افزار SPSS نسخه ۲۴ تحلیل شد. یافته‌ها: یافته‌های پژوهش نشان داد مادران سرپرست خانواده ناشی از طلاق در مقایسه با مادران سرپرست خانواده ناشی از فوت همسر از راهبرد مقابله هیجان‌مدارانه بیشتر استفاده می‌کنند (001/0= p). همچنین مادران سرپرست خانواده ناشی از طلاق در مقایسه با مادران سرپرست خانواده ناشی از فوت همسر سرزنش و خشم، انفصال و کناره‌گیری و درهم‌ریختگی بیشتری تجربه می‌کنند (001/0= p). نتیجه‌گیری: با توجه به نتایج می‌توان نتیجه گرفت، چالش‌هایی که مادران سرپرست خانواده پس از طلاق روبه‌رو می‌شوند، مکانیسم‌های مقابله‌ای و واکنش‌های سوگ متمایزی را نسبت به مادران سرپرست خانواده ناشی از فوت همسر به وجود می‌آورند. نتایج این پژوهش قابلیت این را دارد که مورداستفاده روان‌شناسان و مشاوران خانواده قرار گیرد.
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Abstract Introduction: The experience of loss is challenging, especially when it occurs due to divorce or the death of a spouse, and it can be a difficult experience for mothers. The research aims to to compare the coping styles and grief reactions in mothers who are heads of families due to divorce and the death of spouse. Research method: The current research is descriptive of causal-comparative type. The statistical population of the study included all the heads of families with the age range of 33 to 52 years residing in Karaj city during the 2022-2023 period which included two groups of divorced mothers and mothers whose husbands had died. The sampling method was of convenience type and consisted of two groups of 35 mothers who were heads of the family (one group due to divorce and the second group due to the spouse`s death). The data collection tools used in the study were the Coping Strategies Questionnaire and the Hogan Grief Reaction Checklist. Data were analyzed using multivariate analysis of variance (MANOVA) and SPSS version 24. Findings: The findings showed that mothers who are the head of the family due to divorce use more emotion-oriented coping strategies compared to mothers who are the head of the family due to the death of their spouse (p=0.001). Also, mothers who are the head of the family due to divorce experience more blame and anger, separation and withdrawal, as well as confusion compared to mothers who are the head of the family due to the death of their spouse (p=0.001). Conclusion: Therefore, it can be concluded that the challenges faced by mothers who are the head of the family after divorce create different coping mechanisms and grief reactions compared to those due to the death of their spouses. The results of this research can be used by psychologists and family counselors.
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