بازنمایی معنایی ماهیت زندگی زناشویی در ازدواج‌های ناموفق (رویکردی برساختگرایانه)
محورهای موضوعی : فصلنامه زن و جامعه
عالیه شکربیگی
1
(استادیار گروه جامعه شناسی، واحد تهران مرکز، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، تهران، ایران.)
امیدعلی احمدی
2
(استادیار گروه جامعه شناسی، واحد آشتیان، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، آشتیان، ایران.)
مریم ابراهیمی منش
3
(دانشجوی دوره دکتری جامعه‌شناسی، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی ، تهران، ایران، کارشناس پژوهش و آینده‌نگری سازمان مدیریت و برنامه‌ریزی فارس)
کلید واژه: سازگاری زناشویی, باورهای غیرمنطقی, نگرش به طلاق, انتظارهای زناشویی, نظریه زمینه‌ای,
چکیده مقاله :
این پژوهش با هدف استخراج باورهای زنان مطلقه یا متقاضی طلاق در خصوص زندگی زناشویی و پندار آنان از همسر آینده در پیش از ازدواج انجام گرفته است. بر این اساس، تلاش شده است دیدگاه زنان با رویکردی برساختگرایانه و با استفاده از روششناسی کیفی و اسلوب نظریه زمینه‌ای[1] مورد کنکاش قرار گیرد. نمونهها بر اساس روش نمونهگیری هدفمند، از بین ۴۰ زن متقاضی طلاق یا مطلقه، مراجعه کننده به مراکز مشاوره خانواده در سطح شهر شیراز انتخاب و دادهها با استفاده از روش مصاحبه ژرف گردآوردی شدهاند. از راه سه مرحله کدگذاری باز، محوری و گزینشی، ۵ مقوله اصلی «توهم همسر آرمانی»، «زندگی زناشویی رویایی»، «آماده نبودن "خود" جهت ورود به زندگی زناشویی»، «ازدواج زود هنگام و بی تدبیری در امور زندگی» و «نداشتن فهم کافی از دنیای مردانه» و یک مقوله هسته با عنوان «ناشناخته بودن ماهیت زندگی زناشویی» پدیدار شد. تحلیل یافتهها مشخص کرد که زنان مصاحبه شونده نسبت به فضای زندگی زناشویی و مراوداتی که در آینده بایستی برقرار کنند از باورها و پندارهای واقع بینانهای برخوردار نبودهاند، هم چنین، پندار پیشین آنان از شوهر آینده نیز بسیار آرمانگرایانه و به دور از واقعیت بوده است.
This study aimed to explore beliefs of divorced women and those who have begun divorce proceedings about married life and their perceptions about their future husbands. Using constructivist approach, qualitative methodology and grounded theory, the paper tried to study the view of divorced women and those who has begun divorce proceedings. Based on purposive sampling, participants were selected from 40 women who was either divorced or had begun divorce proceedings and had visited one of counseling centers in Shiraz. Data was gathered through in-deep interviews. Using three phases of open, axial and selective coding, 21 concepts, 5 main themes and 1 core concept (being alien to the nature of married life) were emerged. The findings revealed that interviewed women did not enjoy realistic beliefs and perceptions about nature of married life and its appropriate behavior; in fact, their perceptions about their future husbands were too idealistic and distant from reality.
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