تفاوت حسادت‌شناختی، عاطفی و رفتاری و سبک‌های عاطفی در زنان بی‌وفا، خیانت‌دیده و فاقد تجربه‌ی خیانت

محورهای موضوعی : فصلنامه زن و جامعه

سمیرا برج خانلو ¹ (کارشناسی ارشد روانشناسی عمومی، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، واحد ساوه، گروه روانشناسی، ساوه، ایران.)
آزاده فرقدانی ² (استادیار گروه روانشناسی، واحد ساوه، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، ساوه، ایران.)

تاریخ دریافت : 1396/04/26 تاریخ پذیرش : 1397/09/05 تاریخ انتشار : 1397/09/01

کلید واژه: حسادت, سبک‌های عاطفی, زنان بی‌وفا, خیانت‌دیده, فاقد تجربه‌ی خیانت (عادی),

چکیده مقاله :

پژوهش حاضر با هدف مقایسه­ی حسادت شناختی، عاطفی و رفتاری و سبک‌های عاطفی (پنهان‌کاری، سازگاری و تحمل) در زنان بی‌وفا، خیانت‌دیده و فاقد تجربه­ی خیانت (عادی) صورت گرفته است. این پژوهش که از نوع پس­رویدادی است، در دو جامعه­ی زنان بی‌وفا و خیانت‌دیده مراجعه‌کننده به سازمان بهزیستی و مراکز مشاوره وابسته و جامعه­ی زنان عادی مراجعه‌کننده به خانه­ی سلامت شهر ساوه، انجام شده است. انتخاب افراد از جامعه­ی اول به صورت در دسترس (30 بی‌وفا، 30 خیانت‌دیده) و از جامعه­ی دوم به صورت تصادفی ساده (30 عادی) صورت گرفته است. ابزار گردآوری اطلاعات شامل پرسش نامه‌های سنجش حسادت ولی‌زاده و آذربایجانی (1389) و سبک‌های عاطفی هافمن و کاشدان (2010) بوده‌اند. نتایج تحلیل داده‌ها با تحلیل واریانس چند متغیره حاکی از بالاتر بودن حسادت‌شناختی، عاطفی و رفتاری در زنان عادی در مقایسه با بی‌وفا و خیانت‌دیده و همچنین بالاتر بودن سبک عاطفی پنهان‌کاری در زنان بی‌وفا در مقایسه با خیانت‌دیده و عادی بوده است.

چکیده انگلیسی:

      This study aimed to compare the cognitive, affective jealousy and affective styles (secrecy, compatibility and tolerance) between unfaithful, betrayed women and women with no experience of betrayal (normal). This Ex Post Facto research was conducted on two groups of population: Unfaithful and betrayed women, visiting the welfare Organization of Iran and its affiliated counseling centers, and women with no experience of betrayal, visiting the public health center of Saveh. Subjects from the first population (30 unfaithful and 30 betrayed women) and second population (30 normal women) were selected using convenience sampling and simple random sampling techniques, respectively. Data collection instrument included the Jealousy Assessment Inventory developed by Valizadeh and Azerbaijani (2010), and the Affective Style Questionnaire by Hofmann and Kashdan (2010). Results from the application of MANOVA on data showed higher rate of cognitive, affective and behavioral jealousy in normal women than in unfaithful woman and betrayed ones., in addition, secrecy, as an affective style, was more prevalent among unfaithful woman than betrayed and normal ones.

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