پیش¬بینی ملاک¬های همسرگزینی براساس رضامندی زوجیت و محبوبیت متقابل والدین
الموضوعات : Psychology of couplesفرزانه پوررضی 1 , زهرا نقش 2 , قربان همتی علمدارلو 3 , محمدرضا بردیده 4
1 - دانشجوی دکتری سنجش و اندازه گیری، دانشگاه تهران، پردیس بین المللی کیش. F.Purazi@gmail.com
2 - دانشیار گروه روانشناسی، دانشگاه تهران، تهران، ایران. (نویسنده مسئول): Z.Naghsh@ut.ac.ir ، تلفن: 09124396156
3 - استاد گروه روانشناسی و آموزش کودکان استثنایی، دانشگاه شیراز، شیراز، ایران. ghemati@shirazu.ac.ir
4 - استادیار گروه روانشناسی، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی واحد فیروزآباد، فیروزآباد، ایران. mbardideh@yahoo.com
الکلمات المفتاحية: رضامندی زوجیت, محبوبیت متقابل والدین, ملاک¬های همسرگزینی,
ملخص المقالة :
چکیده مقدمه: یکی از متغیرهایی که قبل از آغاز زندگی زناشویی مورد توجه بوده و با عملکردی بعدی زوج ها رابطه دارد، ملاک-های همسرگزینی است. هدف پژوهش حاضر پیش¬بینی ملاک¬های همسرگزینی جوانان در آستانه ازدواج براساس رضامندی زوجیت و محبوبیت متقابل والدین بود. روش پژوهش: روش پژوهش توصیفی-همبستگی و جامعه آماری کلیه دانشجویان 18 تا 30 ساله در آستانهِ ازدواج دانشگاه-های شهر شیراز و والدین آنها بودند که به روش نمونه¬گیری خوشه¬ای چندمرحله¬ای تعداد 300 نفر از آنها انتخاب و توسط مقیاس¬ رضامندی زوجیت افروز؛ مقیاس محبوبیت والدین اسدی و افروز؛ و پرسشنامه اولویت¬بخشی ملاک¬های همسرگزینی رفاهی (1387) مورد ارزیابی قرار گرفتند. داده¬های پژوهش با استفاده از نرم افزار SPSS و به روش همبستگی پیرسون و رگرسیون گام¬به¬گام تجزیه و تحلیل گردید. یافته¬ها: یافته¬ها نشان داد بین تمام مؤلفه¬های رضامندی زوجیت و محبوبیت والدین با ملاک¬های همسرگزینی محتوایی و فرایندی رابطه مثبت معنادار (05/0>p) وجود دارد. همچنین یافته¬های حاصل از تحلیل رگرسیون نشان داد سه مؤلفه امورمالی و فعالیت¬های اقتصادی، روش فرزندپروری، و محبوبیت مادر بهترین پیش¬بینی¬کننده ملاک محتوایی و مؤلفه¬های محبوبیت مادر، احساس و رفتار معنوی، و رفتارهای ارتباطی و اجتماعی بهترین پیش¬بینی¬کننده ملاک همسرگزینی فرایندی بودند. نتیجه¬گیری: نتایج نشان داد عملکرد خانواده به ویژه رضامندی زوجیت و محبوبیت متقابل والدین نقش ویژه در ملاک¬های همسرگزینی جوانان دارند.
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