تبیین رابطه بین باورهای ارتباطی، رضایت جنسی و تمایز یافتگی با صمیمیت زوجین
محورهای موضوعی : روانشناسي اجتماعي
زهرا جانی
1
(دانشجوی دکتری مشاوره، واحد تهران مرکزی، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، تهران، ایران)
علی دلاور
2
(استاد ممتاز، گروه سنجش و اندازه گیری، دانشگاه علامه طباطبائی، تهران، ایران)
کلید واژه: ﺑﺎورﻫﺎى ارﺗﺒﺎﻃﻰ#رﺿﺎﻳﺖ ﺟﻨﺴﻰ# ﺗﻤﺎﻳﺰ ﻳﺎﻓﺘﮕﻰ ﺧﻮد#ﺻﻤﻴﻤﻴﺖ زوﺟﻴﻦ, communication beliefs# sexual satisfaction and differentiation with marital intimacy,
چکیده مقاله :
هدف پژوهش حاضر تبیین رابطه بین باورهای ارتباطی، رضایت جنسی و تمایزیافتگی با صمیمیت زوجین بود. جامعه آماری این پژوهش شامل تمامی زنان متاهل مراجعه کننده به خانه های سلامت شهر تهران در سال 1398 بود که از میان آنها تعداد 320 نفر طبق جدول مورگان به عنوان نمونه مورد نظر تعیین شدند که در نهایت با در نظر گرفتن ریزشهای احتمالی 350 زن متاهل به عنوان نمونه پژوهش انتخاب شدند. روش نمونه گیری در این پژوهش خوشه ای چندمرحله ای بود. برای جمع آوری اطلاعات از پرسشنامه باورهای ارتباطی آیدلسون و اپشتاین (1981)، پرسشنامه رضایت جنسی لارسون (1988)، مقیاس تمایزیافتگی اسکورن و فریدلندر (1998) و صمیمیت زوجین ووندن بروک و برتمن (1995) استفاده شد. یافته های پژوهش با استفاده از روش آماری همبستگی در نرم افزار SPSS نسخه 26 مورد تجزیه و تحلیل قرار گرفت و نتایج نشان داد که بین باورهای ارتباطی با صمیمیت زوجین همبستگی مستقیم و منفی (145/0- ) و بین رضایت جنسی با صمیمت زوجین همبستگی مثبت معنی دار ( 315/0) ولی بین تمایزیافتگی با صمیمیت زوجین رابطه معنی داری (006/0) در سطح 01/0 >p وجود ندارد. بنابراین می توان نتیجه گرفت که برای ارتقای صمیمیت زوجین به مولفه هایی مثل باورهای ارتباطی و رضایت جنسی و تمایزیافتگی به صورت آموزش دوره های تخصصی پرداخت و آمار بالای طلاق به دلیل عدم این مهارت هاست.
The aim of this study was to explain the relationship between communication beliefs, sexual satisfaction and differentiation with marital intimacy. The statistical population of this study included all married women who referred to health centers in Tehran in 1398. 320 people were selected as a sample according to Morgan’s table, which finally considering the possible sample reduction, 350 married women were selected. The sampling method in this study was multistage cluster sampling. Edelson-Epstein (1981) Relational Belief Inventory, Larson Sexual Satisfaction Questionnaire (1988), Scorne and Friedlander Differentiation Scale Differentiation of Self-Inventory (1998), and Marital intimacy questionnaire (1995) Couple Intimacy Questionnaire were used to collect data. Findings were analyzed using correlation statistical method in SPSS software version 22. The results showed that there was a direct and negative correlation (-0.145) between communication beliefs with couple intimacy and significant positive correlation (0.315) between sexual satisfaction and couple intimacy; although there is no significant relationship (0.006) between differentiation and couples intimacy at the level of p <0.01. Therefore, it can be concluded that in order to promote couple’s intimacy, components such as communication beliefs, sexual satisfaction, and differentiation can be taught and reduced high divorce rate due to the lack of these skills.
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