بازنمایی تجربه زیسته فرزندان زنان مطلقه در فرآیند احتمال ازدواج مجدد مادران: مطالعه‌ای کیفی در بستر فرهنگی
ابوالفضل حاتمی ورزنه
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استادیار، گروه مشاوره و روان‌شناسی، دانشکده علوم انسانی، دانشگاه حضرت معصومه (س)، قم، ایران
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زهرا ایمانی
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دانش‌آموخته کارشناسی ارشد مشاوره خانواده، گروه مشاوره و روان‌شناسی، دانشکده علوم انسانی، واحد قم، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، قم، ایران
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کلید واژه: تجربه زیسته, فرزندان طلاق, ازدواج مجدد مادر,
چکیده مقاله :
ازدواج مجدد یکی از پیامدهای متداول پس از طلاق است که می‌تواند دگرگونی‌های عمیقی را در ساختار خانواده و تجربه زیسته فرزندان رقم بزند. پژوهش حاضر با هدف واکاوی تجربه زیسته فرزندان زنان مطلقه در مواجهه با احتمال ازدواج مجدد مادرانشان انجام شد. این مطالعه با رویکرد کیفی و با بهره‌گیری از روش تحلیل تماتیک براون و کلارک (2006) به اجرا درآمد. جامعه پژوهش شامل نوجوانان ۱۲ تا ۱۸ ساله ساکن شهر قم بود که دست‌کم یک سال از طلاق والدینشان گذشته بود. مشارکت‌کنندگان به شیوه نمونه‌گیری هدفمند انتخاب شدند و فرایند نمونه‌گیری و تحلیل داده‌ها تا دستیابی به اشباع نظری ادامه یافت که در مجموع با ۱۴ نفر مصاحبه انجام شد. داده‌ها از طریق مصاحبه‌های نیمه‌ساختاریافته گردآوری و سپس با استفاده از مراحل تحلیل تماتیک مورد بررسی قرار گرفتند.
تحلیل داده‌ها منجر به استخراج هشت تم اصلی شد که به‌شرح زیر است: درونی‌سازی کلیشه‌های منفی درباره ناپدری؛ مقاومت در برابر تغییر نقش‌ها و ساختار خانواده؛ تجربه تعارضات هیجانی و اخلاقی در مواجهه با ازدواج مجدد مادر؛ ترس عمیق از بی‌پناهی و آسیب‌پذیری در خانواده جدید؛ احساس تنهایی، بی‌هویتی و طردشدگی؛ تمایل به بازگشت به خانواده اولیه؛ نیاز به محبت، امنیت و حضور مؤثر والدین؛ و در نهایت، امیدی مشروط به وقوع ازدواجی سالم و ترمیم‌کننده.
یافته‌های این پژوهش بر ضرورت شناخت عمیق‌تر نسبت به نگرش‌ها، هیجانات و نیازهای روانی-اجتماعی فرزندان در خانواده‌هایی که در آستانه یا درگیر فرآیند ازدواج مجدد هستند تأکید دارد
چکیده انگلیسی :
The present study object was the lived experience representation of the divorced women children in the process of their mothers' potential re-wedding in the cultural context. The research statistical population included adolescents aged 12 to 18 residing in the city of Qom, whose parents had been divorced for at least one year. The sample embraced 14 adolescent participants whom were selected through purposive sampling procedure till achieving theoretic saturation. The study was conducted using a qualitative approach and thematic analysis method based on Braun and Clarke’s (2006) model. The data were collected via semi-structured interview and analyzed by thematic and then analyzed using the stages of thematic analysis. The data analysis led to the extraction of eight main themes, which were as follows: internalization of negative stereotypes about stepfathers; resistance to changing family roles and structure; emotional and moral conflicts in facing the mother’s re-wedding; deep fear of helplessness and vulnerability in the new family; feelings of loneliness, identity loss, and rejection; desire to return to the original family; need for affection, security, and active parental presence. In general, the results indicated that children of divorced women were not only directly affected by the possibility of their mothers remarrying, but also, as emotional and social analysts, showed multi-layered reactions to such complex transformation and their attitudes were influenced by cultural stereotypes, deep existential fears, and the need for affection and emotional security. These reactions ranged from negative internalization of the stepfather and feelings of rejection, to conditional hope that the situations would improve if the mother had healthy and supportive marriage.
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